Giving
By Kahlil Gibran from The Prophet
You give but little
when you give
of your possessions
It is when
you give
of yourself
that you truly give
For what
are your possessions
but things you keep
and guard
for fear
you may need them
tomorrow?
And tomorrow,
what shall tomorrow bring
to the over-prudent dog
burying bones
in the trackless sand
as he follows the pilgrims
to the Holy City?
And what is fear of need
but need itself?
Is not dread of thirst
when your well is full,
the thirst
that is
unquenchable?
There are those who give
little of the much
which they have -
and they give it
for recognition
and their hidden desire
makes their gifts
unwholesome.
And there are those
who have little
and give it all.
These are the believers in life
and the bounty of life,
and their coffer
is never empty.
There are those
who give with joy
and that joy
is their reward.
And there are those
who give with pain,
and that pain
is their baptism.
And there are those
who give
and know not pain
in giving;
nor do they seek joy,
nor give with
mindfulness of virtue;
They give
as in yonder valley
the myrtle breathes
its fragrance
into space.
Through the hands
of such as these
God speaks,
and from behind
their eyes
He smiles
upon the earth.
It is well to give
when asked,
but it is better
to give unasked,
through understanding;
And to the open-handed
the search for one
who shall receive
is joy greater
than giving.
And is there aught
you would withhold?
All you have
shall some day
be given;
Therefore give now,
that the season
of giving
may be yours
and not your
inheritors`.
You often say
I would give,
but only to
the deserving.
The trees
in your orchard
say not so,
nor the flocks
in your pasture.
They give that
they may live,
for to withhold
is to perish.
Surely he who is
worthy
to receive his days
and his nights
is worthy
of all else
from you.
And he who has
deserved to drink
from the ocean
of life
deserves to fill
his cup
from your
little stream.
And what desert
greater shall there be,
that that
which lies in
the courage and
the confident,
nay the charity,
of receiving?
And who are you
that men should
rend their bosom
and unveil
their pride,
that you may see
their worth naked
and their pride
unabashed?
See first that you
yourself deserve
to be a giver,
and an instrument
of giving.
For in truth
it is life
that gives
unto life -
while you,
who deem yourself
a giver,
are but
a witness.
And you receivers
- and you are all
receivers -
assume no weight
of gratitude,
lest you lay
a yoke
upon yourself
and upon him
who gives.
Rather rise
together
with the giver
on his gifts
as on wings;
For to be
overmindful
of your debt
is to doubt
his generosity
who has the
free-hearted earth
for mother,
and God
for father.
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